Domestic violence

We need tougher sentencing for parole violators.
We need therapy for offenders on remand.
We need to remove the 12 month forced attachment prior to divorce.

I've had a fair bit to do with DV especially against men which is still under reported and when reported still at times not recognised. Sexist attitudes in courts and men too embarrassed to report it.
There a lot going on behind the scenes to change it but painfully slow and costing a lot of men's lives as a result, close to claiming mine after the court process and helplessness and utter frustration I was put through.
You've barely scratched the surface of what needs doing and if you scratch deeper you'll find a long list.

You're exactly right Saltiest. We discuss so much trivial **** on this page, I thought a discussion about the most important issue in the country might be helpful.
And no, Mick. With the Aluula kit costing over three grand, it'll be a couple of years before I get a new kite. By then I'll be able to see what Langaree has brought to the market

The DV industry in western countries is a crock of sh%t, the industry is run by a bunch of man hating feminists

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Little Jon said..
The DV industry in western countries is a crock of sh%t, the industry is run by a bunch of man hating feminists

Here is today's example
www.news.com.au/entertainment/tv/current-affairs/bettina-arndt-hits-back-at-poisonous-side-of-feminism-as-backlash-grows-against-her-australia-day-honour/news-story/88815c46d710763619c70a2d03b6add4

I would suspect that some/a lot of DV is perpetuated by males that have grown up without a father figure being a real Dad in their house,

The only way they have grown up as a kid is listening to their own mother ranting about their lost/absent father. all they are hearing is anger and abuse from mothers, and they get tired of it, these kids want a father themselves.

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psychojoe said..

VB MAN said..

saltiest1 said..
I've had a fair bit to do with DV especially against men which is still under reported and when reported still at times not recognised. Sexist attitudes in courts and men too embarrassed to report it.
There a lot going on behind the scenes to change it but painfully slow and costing a lot of men's lives as a result, close to claiming mine after the court process and helplessness and utter frustration I was put through.
You've barely scratched the surface of what needs doing and if you scratch deeper you'll find a long list.

OK, just to throw a couple of extra penny bangers on the fire.
When a man hits a woman it is not a good thing by any means, considering that, as a rule, men are taller, heavier and stronger then their female counterparts so it's not a fair fight anyway.
But have any of you ever seen a mother pick up her child by one arm and belt the living crap out of it in a shopping centre, a carpark, a park ? I have !
Now think of the height, weight, strength difference in that scenario.
And what am I to do, being a single, white, middle aged male if I am to see it ?.
Intervene? Like f//k. I'd be slaughtered, and probably end up being arrested even though I wasn't the one committing the domestic violence
Oh yes, all women are so innocent.

Three words. Child protection services.
It's got different names around the country. Witnessing child abuse is a legitimate reason to call 000. They might not arrive in time, but if you catch the abuser's number plate and make a report, you may just save a child's future.
That said, foster care has had some alarmingly poor results so I wouldn't go making that call lightly.
Sometimes the softer approach works better. These parents are usually just struggling. Saying something like, geez parenting is hard sometimes, might get a better result than the hard approach.

SOME of these parents are struggling. Some are just perpetual arseholes.

A FACT is a little bit of skin beetween the muck hole and the **** hole you break that little skin and your in the **** that is a Fact !!! And did c today in the media women charged for murder after pouring flamablesand setting him alight ! We r all capable its how u deal with it

www.marieclaire.com.au/mothers-who-murder-their-children

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Razzonater said..

Out of 100 avo and restraining orders at least 80% are falsified...
Now I strongly strongly feel sorry and disagree with everything that the 20% have had to endure yet that doesn't help any of the guys the 80% have manipulated the situation to destroy.

mate, i've been directly involved in hundreds of DV matters and i have no idea where you get this from. in my experience maybe 1%, at a stretch are falsified, and they're exposed very quickly by the court system. perhaps it's different in WA but i highly doubt it.

If a woman verbally belittles a bloke 24/7 and threatens to take the house and kids and then he tops himself, is that counted as DV?

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VB MAN said..

KelpoS said..
If a woman verbally belittles a bloke 24/7 and threatens to take the house and kids and then he tops himself, is that counted as DV?

In m opinion, yes.
I'm not sure what side of the fence you are sitting on, but to me ( from situations I have seen) it is.

I see everything as a spectrum. At one end are psychopathic pricks who beat their lovely wives. At the other are women who are toxic and verbally, mentally (and sometimes physically) goad a partner until the inevitable happens. Things aren't always simple.

This is probably worth posting on this thread

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Little Jon said..
This sort of stuff is in the news every day, here's today's article, you won't read stories like these in the left wing media
www.news.com.au/news/national/wife-charged-after-geelong-man-found-burned-to-death/news-story/fc31ca8e6dae488815a8748349aac40a

More lies; the story is on the ABC and Age sites. Why do you post such vicious and silly lies?

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Razzonater said..

Chris 249 said..

Little Jon said..
The DV industry in western countries is a crock of sh%t, the industry is run by a bunch of man hating feminists

What a revolting, stupid lie. Men kill women far more than women kill men. Men beat women far more than women best men. Those are facts

Domestic violence is wrong in every shape and form, couple facts however that people don't like to throw in the mix..........
Women commit infantcide way way more than men.
Men's suicide rate is around 3 times higher than women's and a lot of these men do it because they lose their house , any access to their children and any hope they have of being in their kids lives.
Their are women out there who have four kids to four different fathers knowing full well the whole time their intention is to use the children as a child support and meal ticket and milk all four guys for every part of their soul.

If you want to talk about domestic violence in Australia than you cannot in this day and age plead women have the short end of the stick.

How many men on here wouldn't ever dream of raising their hand to a woman but have been on the receiving end of physical violence from one. ( all)

And again how many men have reported them ( likely none)

Every single man knows at least one or two men who have had an AVO or the like placed on them at time of separation.

All these women doing this for no reason should be charged with fraud and defamation of character as a minimum...

Out of 100 avo and restraining orders at least 80% are falsified...
Now I strongly strongly feel sorry and disagree with everything that the 20% have had to endure yet that doesn't help any of the guys the 80% have manipulated the situation to destroy.

Im awaiting the fallout go for it

Of course you can say women have the short end of the stick - they are five times (and more) more likely to be killed By their partner than men are.

It's a lie to say that all men have been hit by their partner. It's a stupid lie since there's not even a whisper of evidence of anything like that, just as there is no evidence that 80% of avos are false.

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Chris 249 said..

Razzonater said..

Chris 249 said..

Little Jon said..
The DV industry in western countries is a crock of sh%t, the industry is run by a bunch of man hating feminists

What a revolting, stupid lie. Men kill women far more than women kill men. Men beat women far more than women best men. Those are facts

Domestic violence is wrong in every shape and form, couple facts however that people don't like to throw in the mix..........
Women commit infantcide way way more than men.
Men's suicide rate is around 3 times higher than women's and a lot of these men do it because they lose their house , any access to their children and any hope they have of being in their kids lives.
Their are women out there who have four kids to four different fathers knowing full well the whole time their intention is to use the children as a child support and meal ticket and milk all four guys for every part of their soul.

If you want to talk about domestic violence in Australia than you cannot in this day and age plead women have the short end of the stick.

How many men on here wouldn't ever dream of raising their hand to a woman but have been on the receiving end of physical violence from one. ( all)

And again how many men have reported them ( likely none)

Every single man knows at least one or two men who have had an AVO or the like placed on them at time of separation.

All these women doing this for no reason should be charged with fraud and defamation of character as a minimum...

Out of 100 avo and restraining orders at least 80% are falsified...
Now I strongly strongly feel sorry and disagree with everything that the 20% have had to endure yet that doesn't help any of the guys the 80% have manipulated the situation to destroy.

Im awaiting the fallout go for it

Of course you can say women have the short end of the stick - they are five times (and more) more likely to be killed By their partner than men are.

It's a lie to say that all men have been hit by their partner. It's a stupid lie since there's not even a whisper of evidence of anything like that, just as there is no evidence that 80% of avos are false.

There is no evidence recorded of false avo as not one woman has ever being charged in family court of perjury..... or taken to court following for defamation of character....
Not one, out of the thousands and thousands of cases not a single woman has ever been charged...

Further,

Between 2000 and 2010, the rates of filicide in Australia have remained unchanged, which is shocking enough in itself, but what is particularly alarming is that mothers are killing more than fathers. A total of 284 children were killed during this time by a parent or a step-parent, the equivalent of about one child every two weeks. Of those, 133 were killed by their mothers, and 81 were killed by their fathers, with the remaining children killed by stepfathers (it should be noted that stepfathers are over-represented considering they are a relatively small group in the first place). And because data collection is so poor, and some filicides may be classified as accidents or not known at all, this may be the tip of the iceberg.

The above evidence also also displays that women have a more violent temperament in Australia towards children than men do towards children..... additionally many of these charges are only after the woman has lost the second or third child to "an accident" on the first and second event many police investigators and welfare personnel take the mother's word as gospel in relation to potential doubt in sequences of events and timings around them