Who calls a control bar a rod? Have you lost this bar:http://www.gumtree.com.au/s-ad/currumbin/other-sports-fitness/kite-surfing-rod/1105059677
I think she means that she wants a kite surfers rod.???
Drop her a line, buy the bar then hit her up for a drink and some horizontal lambada lessons.
At 36 she will be up for good times guaranteed
It's a no brainer!